Fear, Anger, and Hate

Americans are stressed out, living in fear, and quick to hate. Whether it actually is or not, it sure *feels* like an unraveling.

These are strange times to be an American. I think it’s because so many of my fellow Americans appear to be – what’s the word… Oh yes, nuts.

A standing president just announced that he supports equality and freedom of religion. Apparently, that was controversial.

A thought comes to mind:

What. The. Hell.

A portion of the electorate, as recently as earlier this year, would have called New York City a den of liberal, east-coast godlessness. But it now has hallowed ground in it.

So the east cost liberal threat-status has been downgraded. Muslim community organizers are the in thing to hate now. But don’t fret, New Yorkers, right-wing sentiments are like fashion trends. They’ll come around soon enough.

But this isn’t just about politics.

It’s about fear

Yoda

By no stretch of the imagination am I a Star Wars fan, but we could all stand to keep the following in mind: "Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, and hate leads to douchebaggery." I think that's how it goes.

That’s what underlies the politics. That’s what underlies the culture. And we get a lot of it from every direction.

Even the air in notoriously relaxed Seattle seems weird these days. When I moved out here over 12 years ago, I reflected on how timid everyone seemed compared to my experiences in New England. People are still timid, but they’re also clearly anxious.

The roadways have always seemed a barometer of sentiment. I have lost count of how many times people will honk or flip me off for going the speed limit on a public road. And this says nothing of grocery shopping. One item over the limit may soon be the threshold for a screaming argument.

But it’s not about the roadways and check-out lines. These are mere indicators. Didn’t we learn anything from that damned Muppet?

In my mind’s eye…

I imagine the American mood. We’re stressed out, haven’t slept, and wound up tightly. We’re unwilling to wait. We want more time so that we can do more work.

And we’re poorer; the money doesn’t go so far. We need to cut back. And the kids that we’re smothering? Yeah, they need better schools, too. That under-paid teacher is a bitch. She doesn’t do a good job; I think I’ll yell at her.

There’s no time. We’re distant. In a room full of people, we’re alone. If you speak up, you’ll be glared at by people that don’t have the strength to speak up. So much resentment.

Some of this is local, but I’m increasingly convinced there’s a national element.

I may still have reservations about the whole generational perspective, but it sure as hell feels like we’re in the midst of an unraveling period. All the yelling voices. All the disconnected people. We need to find our footing again.

About Matt Warren

I'm a husband, father, gamer, and restless quasi-intellectual. My interests include reading, gaming, and juggling knives while blindfolded and barrel-running down a steep hill.